“I’m afraid of being monogamous again”

non-monogamy and the dilemma of relational anarchy in the covid-19 pandemic

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https://doi.org/10.9771/peri.v1i21.58765

Abstract

This article aims to discuss non-monogamy from the perspective of black people, paying special attention to how this arrangement was thought and articulated during the time of covid-19 pandemics. The emotional discourse about fear provides us clues to understand the unfeasibility of putting into practice the principle of relational anarchy, interpreted as the “ideal” for non-monogamy. We realize that, on one hand, there is a fear of dying as a result of encounters with other people, and the virus that is ravaging the world; on the other hand, the fear of approaching a monogamous model of relationship and everything it involves stands out, given the restrictions imposed by physical isolation. The methodology used was the combination of content analysis of posts within the Facebook group Afrodengo – Amores Livres and in-depth interviews with its founders. The results suggest that the fear of returning to being a monogamous person, felt by the interlocutors, has to do with overlooking some aspects of relational anarchy, or being more distant from them during the pandemic.

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Author Biographies

Rhuann Fernandes, Rio de Janeiro State University

PhD student and Master's in Social Sciences at the Postgraduate Program in Social Sciences (PPCIS) of the State University of Rio de Janeiro (UERJ).

Júlia Fleury Ferreira, Rio de Janeiro State University

She holds a Master's degree in Social Sciences from the Postgraduate Program in Social Sciences (PPCIS) of the State University of Rio de Janeiro (UERJ).

Published

2025-02-22

How to Cite

Fernandes, R., & Fleury Ferreira, J. . (2025). “I’m afraid of being monogamous again”: non-monogamy and the dilemma of relational anarchy in the covid-19 pandemic. Revista Periódicus, 1(21), 103–131. https://doi.org/10.9771/peri.v1i21.58765

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Dossier 21- Defying monogamy: emergent biopolitics of relational dissidence